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Family Law Attorney Serving
Tulsa, Oklahoma

Whether it's the dissolution of a marriage, disputes over child custody, or securing your paternity rights, these matters are deeply personal and can significantly impact all areas of your life. During this stressful and uncertain time, the guidance and support of a skilled family law attorney can provide much-needed reassurance and clarity.  

Our lawyer, Todd Alexander, serves clients throughout the area with dedication and commitment. Our approach is rooted in understanding your unique needs and goals so we can tailor our approach to your interests.  

Contact The Alexander Law Firm in Tulsa, Oklahoma, today to schedule a free initial consultation to tell us about your situation and learn how we can help you move toward your best resolution.  

Family Law Matters We Handle

Family law encompasses a variety of distinct and interconnected issues. At our firm, we have experience handling a wide range of cases, including but not limited to:  


Oklahoma allows for both no-fault and fault divorces. This means that a divorce can be granted without either party needing to prove fault, such as infidelity or abuse. However, in some cases, fault may still play a role in the division of assets or child custody arrangements. Our experienced divorce attorney can guide you through the process and advocate for your best interests.  

Child Custody  

Without an Oklahoma court's custody order, both parents can claim physical custody if the child was born during the marriage or if there is a paternity agreement. For unwed parents, the father can claim custody if he is on the birth certificate, until the court decides otherwise. Our child custody lawyer will work to protect your parental rights and help you secure the arrangement that serves the best interests of your child.

Child Support  

Oklahoma child support laws follow an "income shares" model, which takes both parents' incomes into account when calculating support obligations. However, there are various factors that can affect the final amount, such as parenting time and medical expenses. Don't settle for anything less than you or your child deserves. If you need assistance with establishing child support or modifying an existing order, our child support attorney is here to provide knowledgeable guidance and representation. 


Establishing paternity has far-reaching implications that extend beyond just the immediate family. Not only does it strengthen the bond between a father and child, but it also lays the groundwork for legal rights and responsibilities. Whether you are a father seeking to establish paternity or a mother looking to secure child support, our skilled paternity attorney can assist in navigating this process.  


Guardianship involves the legal process of appointing an individual to make decisions and care for a person who is unable to do so for themselves, such as a minor child or an incapacitated adult. In Oklahoma, the court can grant guardianship to someone who will act in the best interests of the ward, providing for their health, welfare, and safety. This is often necessary when parents are unable to fulfill their roles due to reasons such as illness, absence, or incapacity. Our experienced guardianship attorney can help ensure that the proper legal steps are taken to secure the well-being and protection of your loved one.

Asset Division  

Oklahoma is an "equitable distribution" state, meaning that assets are divided fairly but not necessarily equally in a divorce. This can be a complex and contentious process, especially when high-value or unique assets are involved. Our asset division attorney has experience handling asset division matters and can work to ensure your property rights are protected during this difficult time.

Your Family Comes First


The Importance of an Experienced Family Law Attorney

Family law matters are complex and emotionally charged. They concern your children's futures, your financial stability, and your relationships with your loved ones. The outcomes of these issues are not ones you want to leave up to chance, so it's crucial to have a knowledgeable family lawyer in your corner. 

Our attorney has been practicing law and advocating for families since 1980. We've handled represented a wide range of clients across family, estate, and probate law cases. We possess a deep understanding of the legal system, and we know to approach each situation with respect and compassion.  

Enlist the Advocacy You Deserve With The Alexander Law Firm 

At The Alexander Law Firm, clients always come first. We're committed to understanding the results you want and helping you understand the actions we can take on your behalf. We will work with you every step of the way to ensure you understand the choices you are making and feel empowered to make them.  

No matter the circumstances, our family law attorney will approach your case with sensitivity and dedication. We will fight for your best interests, whether in court or negotiation. Let us guide you toward the resolution you deserve. Set up a consultation today to discuss how we can assist you with your family law matters.  

Family Law FAQs

The following covers some common questions our clients approach us with regarding our services and other family law matters: 

What can I do if I suspect my former spouse is violating our court orders?

If you think your ex is breaking court orders on custody or support, you should document each violation. A family law attorney can help file a motion for contempt or enforcement to ensure the other party complies with the court's orders.

Detailed records are crucial for presenting your case to the court. Your lawyer will also guide you on protecting your rights and ensuring future compliance. 

Can child custody and support orders be modified later on?

Yes. Over time, circumstances may change that necessitate a modification of the existing child custody agreement. In Oklahoma, to modify a child custody or support arrangement, you must show that there has been a material change in circumstances since the last order was made.   

This could include factors such as a parent's relocation, changes in the child's needs, or changes in a parent's ability to provide care. An experienced family law attorney can help you gather the necessary evidence and present a compelling case to the court.  

Will my child's preference be considered for child custody orders?

Sure, Oklahoma courts may consider a child's preference in custody arrangements, but it is not the sole determining factor. The court's main focus is on the best interests of the child, which can involve a variety of factors such as stability and relationship with both parents. Our attorney can help you understand how your child's preferences may be considered and present your case effectively to the court.  

What can I expect during my initial consultation?

During your initial consultation with a family law attorney, you will have the opportunity to discuss your specific legal issues and goals. This consultation is also an excellent time to ask questions about a lawyer's experience, approach, and fees.

The goal is to ensure that you feel informed, supported, and confident in moving forward with legal representation tailored to your needs.  

Family Law Attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma

Our lawyer, Todd Alexander, strives to achieve favorable outcomes for our clients while prioritizing their well-being every step of the way. Whether you need help with divorce, child custody, or support arrangements, we are here to provide dedicated guidance and support during this trying time.

Contact our Tulsa family law firm today to schedule a consultation and learn how we can help you protect what matters most.